Clinical Reference Systems: Pediatric Advisor 10.0
Refusal to Talk (Selective Mutism)
WHAT IS SELECTIVE MUTISM?
The primary feature of selective mutism is the failure to
speak in social situations, including school, despite the
ability to speak and to understand spoken language. It was
formerly referred to as "elective mutism."
CHARACTERISTICS OF SELECTIVE MUTISM
Some parents may notice their child is overly "shy" when he
or she enters preschool or kindergarten and seems unable to
talk to others in the new class. The parents may have
noticed that the child had a limited group of people he or
she spoke to before attending school. Then, after the child
is in school for several months, the parents find the child
is not talking there.
Some characteristics of selective mutism are:
- Persistent failure to speak in social situations where
talking is expected (such as school, Sunday school, play
groups, around parents' friends), even though the child
can speak in other situations (such as to family
members).
- The situations of "nontalking" begin to interfere with
the child's social development and academic achievement.
- The difficulty lasts longer than a month.
- The child has no other problems with language, such as
lack of knowledge of the language or a communication
disorder such as stuttering.
- The disorder occurs in about one child per 1,000; it is
seen twice as often in girls.
- These children often appear shy, afraid, or anxious. In
the past, their silence was thought to be stubborn
behavior. It is now thought that the anxious feeling
makes them unable to speak.
Many parents are confused by their children's inability to
speak because their children are often very outgoing and
animated at home. Some children will talk easily on the
phone to people they are unable to talk to face-to-face.
CAUSES OF SELECTIVE MUTISM
The cause of selective mutism is not clear. Over the years,
experts have suggested that an unpredictable environment,
being a witness to a family conflict, experiencing a trauma
before age three, or being overly attached to one's mother
could cause the mutism. More recently, researchers are
suggesting that selective mutism is a sign of an anxiety
disorder. Social phobia is an anxiety disorder in which
people fear situations where they might say or do something
embarrassing. People with this disorder often fear speaking
in public or to strangers. People with social phobia often
report being fearful of speaking when they were very young.
TREATMENT OF SELECTIVE MUTISM
As children become older, there are fewer reports of
selective mutism. This means that some children are able to
begin speaking in public places without special help.
Experts suggest that if the problem has lasted at least
6 months, parents should get professional help for their
child.
Selective mutism is relatively rare. Your child's doctor
should refer you to a therapist who is knowledgeable about
the disorder and has treated it before. It is important
that the therapist get a very thorough medical, social, and
psychological history from the child and family. Any
treatment plan must involve the parents and address how this
behavior should be managed at home.
It is also important to include school personnel in the
treatment plan. Many times teachers are as confused as the
parents and are unable to find out how much the child is
learning. Often the treatment plan includes an educational
in-service program for the teacher as well as specific
recommendations for increasing the number of people the
youngster will communicate with.
A number of treatments have been reported by speech
therapists, social workers, psychologists, and
psychiatrists. The best results appear to be from
behavioral therapy. Behavioral therapy is a treatment
approach that helps families identify the behavior of
concern and then plan a structured way to change it.
Many treatment plans begin by observing the youngster
through a one-way mirror while he or she plays with the
parents. This is a good way to determine if there are any
problems with language development that are causing the
mutism. If there are no language problems and interaction
appears appropriate, then a "fade-in" procedure may be used
to begin including the therapist in the family group. When
the youngster is talking freely with the therapist, then the
therapist can begin to help the youngster slowly expand the
variety of people with whom he or she is able to talk.
Often a reward system (reinforcement system) of some type is
used as well. At some point it is also necessary to include
school personnel in the treatment plan.
In some recently reported cases in which anxiety was a clear
factor, medication has been used along with behavioral
therapy to help the child overcome selective mutism. This
treatment should only be considered if the child has not
responded to behavioral interventions and is supervised by a
pediatric psychiatrist familiar with the disorder.
RECOMMENDATIONS FOR PARENTS
- Provide many opportunities for your child to observe you
talking in a relaxed manner in a number of different
situations such as in the neighborhood with friends, at
school gatherings, and while ordering at fast food
restaurants.
- Always reinforce any attempt your child makes to speak
in a public place by gently patting his or her shoulder
or providing verbal praise in a soft voice.
- Don't force talking or ridicule your child for not
speaking. This is usually unsuccessful and often makes
the child more anxious.
- Don't talk about your child's "problem" to relatives or
friends when the child is present. This also may make
the child more anxious.
- Provide many opportunities for the child to continue to
speak in an environment in which he or she is
comfortable. Generally that means in small groups of
people with whom your child is familiar. If your child
is more comfortable in the home, it may be helpful to
invite friends over frequently to encourage this
interaction.
- Many children who are shy begin to speak in new places
after they have become familiar with the teacher, new
children, or the place. If this does not occur and the
shyness begins to affect a child's ability to progress
academically and socially, it is time to seek
professional help.
REFERENCES
Foundation for Elective Mutism
Caroline Miller, codirector
P.O. Box 13133
Sissonville, West Virginia 25360-0133
Foundation for Elective Mutism
Sue Leszczyk, codirector
P.O. Box 450632
Sunrise, Florida 33345-0632
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