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Normal Development: 6 Years Old

Physical Development

  • loves active play
  • can be reckless (does not understand dangers completely)
  • is still improving basic motor skills
  • is still not well coordinated
  • begins to learn some specific sports skills like batting a ball
  • tires easily
  • dawdles much of the time
  • is fascinated with the subject of teeth
  • may become a more finicky eater
  • uses crayons and paints with some skill, but has difficulty writing and cutting
  • may resist baths

Emotional Development

  • may have unpredictable mood swings
  • is quite sensitive to criticism
  • has a problem admitting a mistake
  • feels quite guilty about mistakes

Social Development

  • evaluates self and friends
  • begins to impose rules on play activities
  • cooperates with other children with some difficulty
  • has difficulty considering the feelings of others
  • values independence

Mental Development

  • likes taking responsibility for simple household chores
  • likes to make simple decisions
  • counts to 100
  • asks endless "how-what-when-where-why" questions
  • continues to refine concepts of shape, space, time, color, and numbers
  • begins to understand the difference between intentional and accidental
  • begins to understand differences of opinion
  • still has a short attention span (about 15 minutes maximum)
  • enjoys dramatic play

Each child is unique. It is therefore difficult to describe exactly what should be expected at each stage of a child's development. While certain attitudes, behaviors, and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend. Keep this in mind as you review these milestones.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.


Written by Donna Warner Manczak, Ph.D., M.P.H.
Copyright 1999 Clinical Reference Systems